A big part of your journey to finding your bliss and achieving real balance as a coach, healer, or therapist is your willingness to do the inner work. Before you can truly help others remove their inner blocks, you need to dismantle your own. It’s time to give yourself a dose of your own medicine, sans guilt.

Some therapists become completely burned out or retire before they can make the empowering choice that serves THEIR highest good, because of the guilt of “choosing myself”.

While grappling with this question of guilt and tightrope walking the line of how happy we’re “allowed” to be, you can still feed your curiosity!

First, you can simply add Transformational Coaching Skills — particularly the future-oriented approaches — to your current therapy work.

The benefits are bringing something new, therapeutic, and incredibly hopeful to both your patient’s experience and your own. This involves a bit of leading and exploring to uncover and fully hear from inner resistance that arises from being challenged to push out of a comfort zone.

This can be done using goal setting processes that would require new action, new courage, new passion and “being” a version of themselves that will appear more confident.

This is an eye-opening process to explore all the downsides, fears and expected “tribal punishment” from others like rejection, attack, criticism or being ignored and abandoned. Once surfaced, these activated sides of inner resistance can be voiced, heard, loved, understood and releashed using a guided application of the clinically proven energy psychology tool called EFT or Tapping.

Adding to that is the future-oriented work called “Healing Forward” which is totally focused on bringing a client into alignment with what’s possible instead of staying stuck in the past. (More details on the Healing Forward process to come!)

First, your therapy approach may not be specialized in effectively uncovering, diagnosing and clearing away layers of inner resistance at a mind, body, emotional and nervous system/somatic level.

Inner resistance to change shows up in all humans in many obvious but difficult to solve ways, like: procrastination, self-doubt, paralyzing self-criticism, anxiety, fear or criticism, guilt, self-sabotage.

As a matter of fact the vast majority of therapists — like everyone else — admit to struggling like crazy with these EXACT problems themselves!

What are the 4 shifts needed to bring bigger results (in the lives of your clients and your own)?

All 4 of these shifts are clearly defined and addressed in a very intentional way in transformational coaching…and each has a very specific type of Inner Resistance addressed.

If any of the 4 shifts are missing, progress will stall and clients won’t see the results they want or FEEL and see the value of working with you.

As you read them, note how your own approach fits! For example, most therapy and EFT/Tapping practitioners are mostly working in the Healing Shift focused on healing the past.

This has answered SO MANY questions even experienced coaches have as to why their results fall short of expectations…and how to change that!

1. HEALING SHIFT – UNCOVER & HEAL PAST ROOTS
Deeply Effective Healing Focusing on the Root Sources of current life setpoints – wealth, confidence, joy, health, etc.
*Inner resistance uncovered, diagnosed and cleared – “Resistance Built-in from the Past”

2. BELIEF & POSSIBILITY SHIFT – DEFINE A GOAL FOR A RADICALLY NEW FUTURE
Lead client to “think and dream big” into the next desired level of empowerment and freedom
*Inner resistance uncovered, diagnosed and cleared – “Resistance Triggered by Big Goals”

3. EMPOWERMENT SHIFT – “HEAL FORWARD” INTO CONFIDENCE & EMPOWERMENT
Lead clients to step into a more empowered self need to reach their goals – powerful, confident, joyful, enthusiastic, fearless and REAL.
*Inner resistance uncovered, diagnosed and cleared – “Resistance To Shining with Confidence”

4. ACTION & UPLEVELING SHIFT – SUPERCHARGE MOTIVATION & CONSISTENT ACTION
Support clients steady, enthusiastic progress toward goals while manifesting unexpected support and opportunities.
*Inner resistance uncovered, diagnosed and cleared – “Resistance to Action, Progress, Success”

In the framework of transformational coaching, each Shift has in-depth, step by step, and highly effective processes designed to deliver measurable and verifiable WOW results that the client can see, feel and appreciate.

• How to crack the code to getting real results and catalyzing true transformation
• 3 keys to rare and valuable results as a coach — blast through 4 types of inner resistance and transform others into a more confident version of themselves
• The inner resistance map and my full transformational blueprint to exactly HOW those results are achieved
• Actionable strategies to help you use this information to immediately help others
• And so much more…